Book Review: Kendra Wilkison’s Memoir


Some of you may have followed the saga of me trying to get my hands on a free copy of Sliding Into Home by Kendra Wilkinson with Jon Warech, a real professional writer who I hope got paid a LOT of money to put up with Kendra’s giggle). You can read all the letters I wrote to her agent and publisher and book publicists here. They are all hilarious if I do say so myself.

Sadly, the same cannot be said of Kendra’s book.

Instead the book is a straightforward reminiscence of a short life (I think she’s about 25) filled with bad choices, odd choices, and nudity. Lots and lots of nudity. Written with small words.

Kendra rose to reality super-stardom as one of the three original Girls Next Door on the E! series chronicling the lives of Hugh “Playboy” Hefner’s girlfriends. Kendra was the sporty one. Also the dumb one, the young one and the one I always suspected of being gay underneath it all. Dunno why. Maybe all the times she commented about how other women looked? And not just in a Playboy-centerfold-comparing-herself-to-other-centerfolds way. In a locker room sort of way.

After she left Hef for a football player, she got her own spin-off series that showed her trying to live on her own, getting married and getting knocked up. At least I think that’s what it’s about. I never watched it because I always found Kendra the least compelling of the three girls. Which sort of begs the question why I wanted to read the book at all. But isn’t that obvious? I wanted to know about Playboy mansion orgies! Duh! The sex situation was always left kind of ambiguous on the show and I wanted to know the real scoop. I also want to know about the production behind a reality show. I’m very curious about how much of a show is staged, how much is storyboarded about, how much is manipulated by the producers.

Kendra, unfortunately, didn’t really get into the parts about the production of a reality show though she did let slip that certain things were arranged specifically for filming like when the girls all got scuba certified. But she didn’t go any further than that.

As for the rest, WELL! She did dish. The first part of the book was the story of Kendra’s rebellious young years. She was basically a shit. She partied, did drugs, skipped school, drove her mother to tears, and tried her best to fuck up her life six ways to Sunday. She alludes to the problem being rooted in her father leaving when she was very young and that probably factored in but she rings totally false when she says people didn’t care  about her – her mother and grandmother were doing their damndest to care for her and she was blowing them off and doing meth and coke instead. She also claims repeatedly not to care what people think but I think she cares a whole lot and it’s the root of everything she does: classic approval seeking, by any means necessary,

After her high school years of bad behavior, a stint in a pysch ward, and other misadventures, she started stripping and getting photographed at car shows. Through the car show shots, her photo got in front of Hef as a possible “painted girl” for one of his parties. He apparently called her, never having met her in person, to ask her to be his girlfriend. Whereas a normal person with self-esteem might have said “Ew! Perv!”, she moved right in to the Playboy Mansion. Where no one liked her. So she spent all night in the kitchen with the butlers eating junk food. Except for Saturday nights when she would go out with Hef and a lot of other girls and then head back to his room. There they all took turns servicing him. Holly would go first then all the other women in the room would follow. Hef just lay there, on his back while different girls did their thing to him for about a minute then made room for the next girl.

I’ll give you a moment to stop dry-heaving. Because that whole scene sounded perfectly foul when Kendra wrote it and I have not been able to make it sound less foul.

After a while of this, E! came calling and made the show. They pigeon-holed her as sporty and kind of a party girl and she didn’t really know how to change that. So she didn’t change it: she just did it.  The show finally made her friends with Bridget and Holly, a situation aided because sometime during the series, Hef stopped the weekend orgies.  Thank goodness. I imagine it’s a lot easier to like you’re co-workers when you don’t have to sit naked in a hot-tub with them while waiting your turn to…well, you know.

It was during some Playboy event that she met Hank Baskett who she dated in secret, fell in love with over the phone, and eventually left Hef to marry. Now they have a cute kid. That’s the least interesting part of the story, except for how she describes her position on motherhood being one of not making too many rules because her mom made too many rules and all she wanted to do was break them. Nice. Way to make your mom feel even worse about all the damn drugs you did. Blame her for it. Classy move.

So, in a nutshell, the most interesting parts of Kendra’s life were televised, she sheds only a little light on what went on behind the scenes of her shows, and the poor dear did have to nail Hef.

Now, I KNOW someone else out  there is dying to read this book. So, I am giving my copy away to one lucky reader. All you have to do is leave a comment and I’ll enter you into a drawing to win my copy of Sliding Into Home. Which may or may not have an ice cream stain on one of the pages.

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25 comments for “Book Review: Kendra Wilkison’s Memoir

  1. August 9, 2010 at 10:08 am

    the thought of sleeping with Hef makes me throw up in my mouth…but i loved that damn show!!

  2. Hope C
    August 9, 2010 at 10:11 am

    EWW! Gross!

    None of what you wrote surprises me, but it sounds like a great read for the beach! Please enter me in your drawing!

    Thanks!

  3. August 9, 2010 at 10:13 am

    I hate to admit it, but I’m actually compelled to read the book. I don’t know why. Maybe it’s the whole “train wreck” situation. It’s so bad that I can’t help but keep watching. Or reading, as the case may be.

    So, yes, I would like to be chosen as the lucky winner of this book 🙂

  4. August 9, 2010 at 10:18 am

    Kendra was always my favorite if she could have just kept her mouth shut. Holly always seemed like a gold digging manipulative possessive insecure.. well, bimbo. And Bridget? Goody two shoes trying to slut it up…

    I’d love to read the book, ice cream stain and all…

  5. August 9, 2010 at 10:28 am

    Awesome review. I’ve always wanted to know more- which makes me want to read this book!

  6. KLZ
    August 9, 2010 at 10:52 am

    I still want to read it. I mean, to mock and all, but I still want to read it.

  7. August 9, 2010 at 11:12 am

    My cousin LOVED the Girls Next Door… and she never believed me when I told her that they did so have to touch him. Ew. I’d give the book to her, afterImaybeskimthroughit.

  8. August 9, 2010 at 11:12 am

    Ugh I should not have read this right after breakfast. You didn’t even get into any detail about servicing Hef and I still gagged.

  9. Lara
    August 9, 2010 at 11:28 am

    Thanks for sparing me reading this myself! I was curious but now I’m satiated.

  10. August 9, 2010 at 11:42 am

    Kendra always seemed like the most real of the three girls. Although, I feel bad for anyone that has to “service” Hef. Ugggg…..

  11. Krystal
    August 9, 2010 at 12:07 pm

    I have been wanting to read this book also, but unfortunatly I am a broke mama myself! Great review!

  12. sara
    August 9, 2010 at 1:18 pm

    that was hilarious! You crack me up.

  13. August 9, 2010 at 2:48 pm

    Hef in his pajamas is looking more and more Muppet like. How do these women handle dealing with him???

    Excellent job on the review, as usual. You have a gift, my friend.

  14. Souza
    August 9, 2010 at 4:57 pm

    I find Hugh Hefner wildly sexy. I’d do him.

    Greetz

  15. August 9, 2010 at 5:13 pm

    i LOVED that show. it was the guiltiest of my guilty pleasures. and i actually kind of liked kendra. even though she is annoying as hell. whatevs. i totally want that book!

  16. August 9, 2010 at 5:16 pm

    I wanted to read this out of sheer curiousity.

    I didn’t figure it would be anything great though but I’d still like to read it. I’m just not shelling out over $10 for it.

  17. Dallely
    August 9, 2010 at 5:28 pm

    I don’t mind the ice cream stain.. I would really like to read her book, n take a look of her life.

  18. August 9, 2010 at 5:40 pm

    I want to read. Just to say I did. And to be an all knowing resource of playboy mansion orgies. Hot! (if it was opposite world)

  19. August 9, 2010 at 6:40 pm

    It wouldn’t be a good book about orgies if there wasn’t a stain on a few of the pages.

    ha ha ha ha ha ha.

    I made myself laugh.

    I rock.

  20. August 9, 2010 at 7:29 pm

    Hey, I don’t actually want to be in the drawing, but I did want to say that I enjoyed the review.

    If a person “services” Hef in exchange for living in his house, doesn’t that make her, in fact, a prostitute?

  21. August 10, 2010 at 10:47 am

    I have to admit, you answered the only reason I wanted to read the book. And yes, it was to find out what happened when they’d all go into Hef’s room at night.

    I’m not proud.

    And I agree – I never watched the spin off because she was by far my least favorite of the three girls.

  22. August 10, 2010 at 6:56 pm

    As much as I am NOT a Hef fan or a fan of any of them I’d still read it!

  23. Jenny
    August 12, 2010 at 9:30 am

    i love trashy tv, so i’m sure the book will be even better!

  24. September 3, 2010 at 9:30 pm

    YOU ARE RIGHT ON THE MONEY WITH ALL THAT YOU HAVE TO SAY!I WATCH THE SHOW BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT WILL COME NEXT.I THINK THIS IS ALL YOU WILL SEE OUT OF HER NOT MUCH MORE SHE CAN DO.

  25. September 17, 2010 at 4:58 pm

    Hey- a free book’s a free book. 🙂

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